Life's pathways

It's all about you 

Have you ever felt like being so messed up in life that nothing seems to go at its right place. Negativity surrounds you from all possible directions, leaving no escape. Your actions are considered as your sin, and your good deeds are of no value. People have endless stuff to discuss upon behind your back, you don't even have an idea about which.

You probably must have. At least once in life.

It happens like this only, you know! Hundreds of mouths will continue to depress you. They'll have a never ending opinion of you. The more you'll give the less they'll feel. But comforting others doesn't always ask you to lose yourself. There comes a time when you need to prioritize yourself. You need to define the limits of your relation with yourself and with others. After crossing that limit, you cannot please others, just to save your relation with them. You are not left with any choice. You need to take stand for your self esteem and no one else will.

And remember you do nothing wrong if you start thinking for yourself first!

Isn't it funny how people change? Actually it's not the people who change, time does. Time has a great way to show what matters for them, for you, for me. It's the mask that falls off the faces and a true picture is shown. But one thing I would say to remember, never let anyone be the reason who you are today. Change for yourself, not for them. Change for your betterment, not for theirs. After all, it's all about you, only you can make difference.

Keep shining, keep smiling and love yourself! :)
                                             
                                           -Mahima Goel